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Apartment complexes are huge!

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The complexes can span dozens of buildings of dozens of stories. All concrete. Not everyone lives in apartments, but a lot of people do. Land is expensive - they're not making any more of it. Well... actually, they are - they just built a modern airport on land they built out into the sea. But houses aren't an efficient use of space, and are either very expensive or the hovels of the very poor. … [Read more...]

Exploring the maze of side streets and alleyways

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is another favorite activity. There's always something tucked away that's unexpected and worth the adventure.. The fun thing, too, is to seek out various districts in urban areas. Take a day and visit the antiques district. Take another day and visit one of the major university student districts, with its bookstores, communist coffee shops, and internationally-influenced food. Be sure and … [Read more...]

Staying up all night

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At least once you've got to visit NamDaeMun and DongDaeMun, and you can do it the same night. Those are the names of two of the ancient city gates of Seoul, but  visiting them means visiting the gigantic open-air markets on the one hand, and the vast malls on the other. Things open up for business around dark, and close down around 7am. Stay in a yeog-wan (a small inn), visit a ta-bang (tea shop) … [Read more...]

Leaving the safety of the familiar

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Basically, there are two approaches to living in Korea as an expatriate. One is to stick to the tourist districts (like the infamous Itaewon in Seoul) and eat at McDonalds. These designated areas have the benefits of: high prices, occasional crime, and a lot of drunken Westerners roaming about looking for a brawl or being basically obnoxious. But you will find a Burger King. The other approach … [Read more...]

So what’s it like living in Korea?

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Different. In amazing ways. I think perhaps the watershed moment in my adult life was living in another culture. Not just visiting, but living and working there, paying utility bills, renting, getting dental work. Going to work in the morning with everyone else. Getting haircuts. Buying kitchenware. Hailing cabs, riding the subway. The whole thing. I spent any time I could trying new coffee … [Read more...]

1999

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The Wedding. This is at St. Nicholas Cathedral in Seoul.  That's a young man - that's all I can think when I see myself in that picture. Add about 10 years to how old either I or my wife look, and that's how old we actually are. More wedding photos here. … [Read more...]

1999

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These are students of mine. I taught all ages - businessmen, housewives, college students, but the kids are the most exhuberant. That's JinMo on the bottom left. … [Read more...]

The technology is next generation

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Korea is probably the single most wired country in the world. Its per capita broadband connections dwarf anything on the North American continent. Electronics are small, cutting edge, and ubiquitous. In downtown Seoul there's a giant plasma screen on the side of a skyscraper. Speaking of Seoul, it's smoggy but you'll never run out of things to do. Think of NYC without the crime. In Korea, there's … [Read more...]

The culture is diverse

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There are a lot of misconceptions: for instance, sure, there is a strong confucianist tradition regarding age differences and ancestors. Buddhism is prevalent. But actually Protestant and Roman Catholic Christianity are the dominant religious trends. And there's a thriving presence of Orthodox all over the country. And some people eat dogs and live food, but young people eat a lot of pizza, … [Read more...]

The open-air markets really pull me

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You can find almost anything from this nation of entrepeneurs. You can get your watch battery replaced by a man in a cart passing by, enjoy noodles standing up, and walk away with a suitcase and a new leather coat, drinking coffee made on the spot. … [Read more...]

The cities are just as wonderful

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Every building is several stories. Throw a stone and bounce off two coffee shops, skip over an internet cafe, and land outside an upscale clothing store in the hand of a street vendor. Every urban area in Korea was unique, due to the prevalence of small businesses. In all the world, Walmart went bankrupt here.  But the density, the lights at night, and the people are common elements. Drop me … [Read more...]

People think of the natural wonders

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And they wouldn't be wrong. The mountains and beaches are so accessible. If you've spent a lot of life cooped up in flat, landlocked states, this part of things can quickly come to feel like a long-awaited home. … [Read more...]

DIAKONISSA MARIA

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Deaconess Maria is one of the kindest, most generous persons I've ever met. We're standing in front of the vestments of St. John Maximovitch which, when he was prevented from coming to the mission in Seoul, he sent in his place, and which are venerated and honored along with wedding crowns of the tsar and tsarina that are likewise here. This is the Cathedral of St. Nicholas the Great in Seoul. … [Read more...]

1998

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This is my nephew JunYoung. That's me in the hanbok eating with the in-laws in Taejon. They won't stop feeding me, and you're not supposed to say no. I'm trying to hold bowl after bowl of rice and, of course in the Korean style, some dozen or more side dishes plus the entree. My wife and I completed our civil marriage in this year. … [Read more...]

1998

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Fukuoka, Japan. I loved it. It was expensive, and I stayed in a capsule motel. I had buckwheat noodles in the open air market near the ultra-sleek, ultra-modern Canal shopping complex, where I had French ice-cream and watched the latest Bond film at a mega-theatre. This photo is near the marina where I walked the beach, and near the Hawks Dome. I felt at home with the lions. … [Read more...]

Crowned

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My wife and I have been married 10 years. We owe this merciful longevity  to the reality of the Faith, to the Angels and the Saints, to the uncreated Energies of The Holy Trinity. It is truly a matter of joy and of martyrdom. May God grant that my wife live long, but I live longer, and spare my wife the grief of waiting. … [Read more...]

With Gold or With Flowers

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Holy Matrimony has two parts: the Betrothal, in which the rings are blessed and exhanged in an inviolable promise, and the Crowning, in which the crowns of joy and martyrdom are placed upon the heads of those joined, who will share the common cup and dance the joy of Isaiah. Marriage, among the Orthodox, is indissoluble and for all eternity, and is for the salvation of husband and wife. … [Read more...]

Friends

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These stalwart. Our godparents, Sarah and Nektarios are with us, and my wife's friends, Minja (the Ninja), Moonhee (strictly a coincidence), EunKyung, and Sunhwa. … [Read more...]

1997

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Dunsan-dong, Taejon, South Korea, in July. I lived in Korea for three years, teaching English. This is where I met my wife, give or take a hundred feet or so.  A few moments later, she'll be throwing a cup of water on me, which I deserved. … [Read more...]

With Our Godparents

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Sarah is my wife's godmother. She is called Sarah after St. Sarah, who followed her husband St. Abraham out of Ur and into the land that God would give them, because, in the same way, Sarah followed her husband into Holy Orthodoxy. It is fitting she should be my wife's godmother, since my wife made the same journey. Nektarios is named for St. Nektarios the Great, who suffered at the hands of his … [Read more...]

Portrait

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Our Father Confessor, Fr. Ambrosios and other clergy. I remember, that Father tought me of humility, and fasting, and charity to the poor. The novel I'm working on that's set in South Korea is based on what I witnessed when going with him once, as he delivered money to the poor, the widowed, and the orphaned, in an impoverished neighborhood in Mapo. May I learn his humility, his charity, his … [Read more...]

Family

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Mother and Sister (KyeongRae) (on the left), Nektarios and other Orthodox. … [Read more...]

1995

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This is my first office. The coffee shop. Most of any day when not in class or working was spent here, with books, with colleagues and my academic mentor, with friends, with my laptop, with girlfriends. If you're a regular watcher of Seinfeld, you understand the significance of the coffee shop. … [Read more...]

1994

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Sarah was part blue tick hound and part labrador. She was beautiful, gentle, and a great companion. I miss her deeply. I ran a landscaping company for several years, and I'm on the front lawn of the duplex I was renting. I was also in college, writing poetry, and had no beard yet. … [Read more...]